Responding to Rejection

Responding to Rejection

 


Rejection is never easy, but rejection from people we care about really hurts. Maybe it’s the rejection of losing your job or having a spouse walk out on you. Sometimes rejection can be so devastating we are not sure we are going to recover. The devil will try to destroy a child of God with rejection by using deception and distraction. Here are five ways you can prevent rejection from gaining a stronghold in your life:

1. Jesus understands. On the cross, He faced the rejection of the whole world. Be honest with God about your feelings. He understands.

2. Don’t seek revenge. Trust God to bring about ultimate justice. Ask God to help you forgive. After all, Jesus forgave us for rejecting Him on the cross.

3. Develop a Conquering Mentality. Filling your mind with God’s Word will develop positive thoughts, causing you to see things from His perspective.

4. Don’t confuse forgiveness with a lack of accountability. Holding wrongdoers accountable is good—for them, for us, and for others.

5. Choose to get better, not bitter. The best way to get even in a good way is to get better. remember, “Bitterness is the poison we swallow while hoping the other person dies.”

By implementing these five preventive life-applications for rejection, you can take authority over the spirit of fear and rejection and decree God’s Word in your life. Life is not for the weak, but for the strong in God! There will be battles, but they provide opportunities to grow. A battle is often seen as opposition, but the truth is that it is an essential part of the journey.

You may be in a major battle, but you are on the road to a miracle! No one alive today ever experienced a miracle or a great victory in his life without going through battles. Struggle is proof that you have not been left alone. If you are still fighting, at least you know you have not been beaten! Say what God says and move from rejection to God’s acceptance! 

 

 

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God’s Favor with Man Overcomes Obstacles

God’s Favor with Man Overcomes Obstacles


If you have studied the Bible, you know the story of Jacob—how he and his mother, Rebekah, deceived his father, into giving him the blessing that should have gone to his twin brother Esau. To save his life, he was sent away to live with his mother’s brother, Laban. Soon after his arrival in Haran, Jacob fell deeply in love with Rachel. After pledging to work seven years for her hand in marriage, Jacob was deceived by Laban, who replaced Rachel at the marriage ceremony with her veiled older sister Leah. A devastated and disappointed Jacob promised to work an additional seven years in order to marry Rachel.

Although Jacob had played a role in deceiving his nearly blind father, he was still a descendant of a line of godly men, Abraham and Isaac—righteous men of honesty and principle. After Jacob had spent a week’s honeymoon with Leah, Laban allowed him to marry Rachel and then serve his seven-year commitment. In seven days, Jacob went from being an enthralled young man enraptured by his beautiful younger cousin to being an overworked, underpaid husband of not one but two wives.

Over the ensuing seven years, Jehovah blessed Jacob with eleven sons and one lone daughter. Laban, too, received the blessings of God and became a very wealthy man because of his son-in-law’s integrity and righteousness. At any time, Jacob could have stealthily gathered Rachel and her two sons, abandoned the covenant he had made based on Laban’s deception with Leah, and could have run from his father-in-law’s demands. Instead, Jacob chose the way of integrity.

Jacob had made his peace with Jehovah, learned a very valuable lesson about deception, and had determined to live a righteous life. He served with honor for 17 long years before asking Laban to release him and allow him to return home. Jacob became a very wealthy man despite Laban’s repeated attempts to cheat him. (See Genesis 30:9–43.) Perhaps it was this story of his ancestors that caused Solomon to write in Proverbs 20:7: “The righteous man walks in his integrity; his children are blessed after him.”

Because of his uprightness, Jacob left the home of his father-in-law, not only with his wives and children but with God-given favor with man. That favor would extend to his first meeting with his brother, Esau, since leaving home in disgrace (see Genesis 32). Jacob would again reap favor with man because of his dedication to Jehovah God. Never underestimate God’s abundant blessings and man’s favor bestowed on those who continue to live a righteousness life.

 

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Catching God’s Vision

Catching God’s Vision

God is asking you today, “What do you want to do with your life?” Get the vision He wants to give you and do not be afraid! Deal with your fear and allow Him to guide you each step of the way.

Years ago, I spent the day with some dear friends, Jim and Jeanne Rogers. Jeanne has a dynamic ministry as a singer and praise leader. She has sung at conferences across the nation, taught music workshops, and appeared on television. But as a young woman, Jeanne felt the pain of rejection. Her mother was divorced two or three times and her father, an alcoholic, abandoned her when she was a baby. But today, people look at her and say, “What a marvelous lady and a wonderful singer!”

Look at Evangelist James Robison. When he was born, his mother put an ad in the newspaper asking for someone to raise him. A godly pastor and his wife took James into their home as a foster child and shared the love of God with him. But the promise of a loving family didn’t last. Throughout his childhood, James was shuffled between the foster home where he felt safe and the house where his mother lived. There, he faced poverty, rejection, and abuse by an alcoholic father.

Today, James Robison is one of the most dynamic Christians anywhere. His organization, LIFE Outreach International, is bringing the life and love of Jesus to sick, starving, forgotten people all across the globe. In southern Africa alone, LIFE Outreach is helping to feed tens of thousands of children every month—and seeing multitudes saved through the power of the Gospel.

What happened to these people? By God’s grace, they stopped feeling sorry for themselves. They faced their fear and put their faith in Jesus. They saw reality from God’s perspective and allowed it to redefine their future. They believed He had His hand on their lives, and they trusted Him—no matter what their circumstances told them.

Stop making excuses. Being angry at the world for your misfortunes will get you nowhere. You need to say, “God, You have a plan for my life. Show me that plan and help me fulfill the call You have on my life. I trust You, and I thank You for loving me.” 

 

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Catching God’s Vision

God’s Favor Brings Blessing

God hardened Moses to desert living in the place he would spend another 40 years of his life. The adopted son of Pharaoh’s daughter learned meekness and humility and, at the same time, grew physically stronger and more hardened for the task ahead. At the end of 40 years, Moses was charged with stalking into the throne room of the most powerful man in the region and demanding that he allow the Israelites—his bond slaves—to pack up and leave Goshen. Moses transitioned from being nobody to being somebody. He received enormous preference from the Egyptians because of God’s grace and favor. 

After Moses encountered his brother, Aaron, in the desert, the two men made their way to the palace to challenge Pharaoh. With his refusal to let the Israelites go, God began to visit ten plagues on the land. Rather than persuade the ruler, it did the opposite, and the burdens that had been placed on the children of Jacob were intensified. The last plague, the death of all of Egypt’s firstborn, was the final straw for the rebellious Pharaoh. Finally, he declared that the Israelites could go free. But they did not go empty handed. 

The night before the Passover lamb was to be offered and its blood applied to the doorposts of the homes of every Israelite, Jehovah sent them forth to their neighbors and gave them great favor and specific instructions: “‘Speak now in the hearing of the people, and let every man ask from his neighbor and every woman from her neighbor, articles of silver and articles of gold.’ And the Lord gave the people favor in the sight of the Egyptians. Moreover the man Moses was very great in the land of Egypt, in the sight of Pharaoh’s servants and in the sight of the people” (Exodus 11:2-3). 

What incredible favor extended to a group of slaves! What would your reaction be if someone knocked on your door and politely asked you for your gold and silver, assuming you had any available? God had paved the way for His people. When the knock sounded on the door, whatever was owned by the Egyptian captors was readily given to the Israelites. Joseph’s descendants were set free bearing the blessings of Jehovah as they hurriedly followed Moses to the Red Sea. Psalm 105:37 says, “He also brought them out with silver and gold, and there was none feeble among his tribes.” In the midst of their captivity, Jehovah-Mephalti—the Lord my Deliverer—blessed His people with both health and wealth. 

Moses discovered that the favor of Jehovah God could open doors that no man could shut! It provided material goods that would never have been offered to the suffering Israelites in bondage to the Egyptians. God had granted favor to the children of Israel when that seemed impossible. Favor with man enjoyed by Believers is a gracious gift from our heavenly Father.

 

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‘THE PRINCE OF PERSIA’: HISTORY, FAITH, AND A WARNING THE WEST IGNORED – OPINION

‘THE PRINCE OF PERSIA’: HISTORY, FAITH, AND A WARNING THE WEST IGNORED – OPINION

The greatest uprising since the Iranian Revolution of January 1979 is happening right now. It looks like a scene from the movie Braveheart, when Scotland cried “Freedom” during the First War of Scottish Independence against King Edward of England, led by Sir William Wallace.

Evangelical Bible believers see it as a battle between principalities and powers. “For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities and powers, against the world rulers of this darkness, against spiritual hosts of wickedness in the heavenly places” (Ephesians 6:12).

They see a similar battle that happened in Persia during Daniel’s day in the Bible, against a demon spirit called the Prince of Persia, described in the Book of Daniel, chapter 10, a demonic spiritual force opposing God’s purpose. It was a cosmic battle of spiritual warfare in which the angel Michael, the guardian angel of Israel, battled demonic forces.

Farah Pahlavi, Empress of Iran, held my book, Jimmy Carter, the Liberal Left, and World Chaos, in her hands in her home in Georgetown twenty-six years ago. The book documented president Jimmy Carter’s plan to overthrow the Shah of Iran.

She said, “It is absolutely true what you’ve written. He came to Tehran on New Year’s 1977 and told the King, ‘You will release political prisoners, give freedom of the press and freedom of religion, and you will allow Khomeini to come back. If you don’t, you will not get replacement parts for your helicopters and planes. I have the authority to do this under a human rights provision.’”

“When he left, my husband said, ‘If I agree, the Russians will invade Afghanistan, Iraq will attack Iran, an Islamic Revolution will be born in Iran, and who knows what horror will come upon the earth.’” She said, “Carter believed that Khomeini would be great for human rights because he was a cleric and could become a Gandhi-like figure.”

The day before my meeting with Farah Pahlavi, I met in the home of General Robert Huyser, former Deputy Commander-in-Chief of European Command and Jimmy Carter’s special emissary to Iran. He told me he was sent to Tehran to foment a military coup. Huyser’s job was to inform the generals that Carter was in favor of democracy in Iran and to persuade the military leaders to remain in Iran and work with the United States, assuring them that the US would protect them.

Huyser, with tears running down his face, told me in his home, “They all died because of me. They could have saved the country from the revolution, but Carter would not let them. They died believing in us.” Of the eighty top generals, more than seventy were tortured and executed, along with hundreds of lower-ranking officers. Almost seventy-five percent of the senior officers were killed.

‘Carter had abandoned an ally’

I flew to France and met with President Valéry Giscard d’Estaing. He told me something similar. “President Carter called for a meeting on the French island of Guadeloupe in the Caribbean with the leaders of Britain, France, and West Germany. The United States had decided not to support the regime of the Shah and was working to overthrow him.” He said “Carter had abandoned an ally.”

Khomeini became the VIP darling of the Western media. France had become a command center for the launch of the Islamic Revolution. Khomeini gave over one hundred media interviews during his four-month stay in Neauphle-le-Château, France, and hosted over one thousand Iranian visitors a day. Two of Khomeini’s visitors were Farouk Kaddoumi, PLO department head, and a Libyan representative of Muammar al-Qaddafi.

His compound was surrounded by representatives of covert agencies from the major powers: the CIA, British MI6, Russian KGB, and the French intelligence organization SDECE. I later found out that funds were also being sent to Khomeini from the United States while he was in France to help him overthrow the Shah.

On September 23, 1980, I was in the home of Isser Harel, founder of Israeli intelligence Mossad, in Tel Aviv. I asked him three questions. First: “Do you think Jimmy Carter will win the election against Ronald Reagan?” Carter was ahead in the polls. Harel said, “The Iranians will have something to say about that. When Ronald Reagan puts his hand on the Bible, the hostages will be released.”

I then asked him what would happen to Sadat. He said, “We have saved his life several times, but at an opportune time, the Muslim Brotherhood will kill him.”

My third question was whether terrorism would ever come to America. He said, “The terrorists have the power but not the will. You have the will but not the power. All of that can change in time. You kill a fly and rejoice. We kill one, and a hundred come to the funeral. Your first terrorist attack will be in New York City, your tallest building.”

The deadlock between the United States and Iran seemed insurmountable until January 15, 1981. Just days before Carter was to leave office, Iran agreed to the terms. US bank officials worked marathon sessions. New documents were drawn up, and the Bank of England was approved as the repository of the escrow funds. Shortly after 4:00 a.m. on Inauguration Day, January 20, 1981, the Carter administration relinquished $7.977 billion to the Iranians. The transfer required fourteen banks and the participation of five nations acting concurrently.

As I watched Ronald Reagan place his hand on the Bible to be sworn in, a news flash announced that the hostages were being released. My phone rang. It was the senior advisor to Prime Minister Begin, Dr. Reuben Hecht, who had been in the meeting with me and Isser Harel. He said, “Harel is a prophet. It’s happening exactly as he said.”

Mike Evans is a New York Times #1 bestselling author of 119 published books and a Nobel Peace Prize nominee. He is the founder of the Friends of Zion Heritage Center and recently led an initiative that brought 1,000 evangelical pastors to Israel to combat antisemitism.

 

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