Sally from US
February 27 at 9:17 pm
Please pray for my marriage. Last weekend my husband asked for a divorce after 36 yrs together. I have always loved him, still do & always will love him with all my heart. My heart was deeply broken, my soul was crushed with this news. He said he hasn’t love me more then as a friend for yrs. Monday he said we could talk to our pastor. We did, I told our pastor everything. Things went well on my part & pastor pointed out many things my husband was doing wrong & has to work on. My husband told Pastor he wants to work on saving our marriage. My husband thinks I will hold this against him forever. Both our Pastor & I told my husband it would take a long time for me to forgive & forget him for everything he has done since I was hurt so badly. I am concerned my husband still won’t love me the same way his used to love me. I look back now & see many red flags. He still isn’t showing any effort in showing me change yet or loving me more. & that concerns me. in Jesus name. Amen
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Ken Lameta on February 27 at 10:38 pmHi Sally, I've been through that pathway. Give your husband time to absorb God's spiritual intercessor. He will settle down ultimately and be at peace with you more than ever before.
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Michelle on February 27 at 9:35 pmDearest Sally, Lay it all on the Lords Lap. He loves you perfectly. He knows your hurts. He knows why your husband is struggling. Leave it with the Lord. Even minute to minute. Trust his timing! Then start praising Him for all the littlest blessings. Pray blessing over your husband and pray scripture. Do something for you. Ask the Lord to show you an area where He can use you....helping others...women’s bible study? Do something where you will be fed. And then rest that the Lord is going to move in your marriage. There are sooo many things we cannot control but also other things we can. What is it that the Lord would have you do...a place where you can find a little joy and fulfillment. Walk in that and rest. It sounds like he’s working on your hubby. Give him time to move and heal him. Hugs! Marriage is so hard!! But it molds us and shapes us. Trusting with you!!