Abcd from the United States
March 2 at 6:35 am
My husband refuses to have sex with me because he says hecdoes not want another child and I will not participate in contraception because it is a sin. God killed Onan for coitus interruptus( spilling hus seed). He did a wicked thing. Our bodies are to be living sacrifices holy and acceptable to God. If God wanted me barren at 38 then I would be. Jesus said when we receive children we receive Him. If God blesses us with a child He will provide for the child. Satan is trying to divorce us. My mother in law called the police on me because I confronted her about inviting my sister in laws over to my house while I was in hospital and she didnt ask me first. I had a homebirth and she had them over to snoop around. She got angry for accusing her of snooping. Then last Tues. Feb 27th, 2019 my husband called the police on me because i was standing behind the vehicle so he wouldn't leave me and our 6 children alone for the night. He is always leaving the house because he refuses to have sex.
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Elke on March 2 at 9:14 amEvery time you are forced to choose between trusting in your husband and trusting in God, choose God. I was in 35-year marriage like yours, but only with 4 children, and with meddling in-laws, police, lawyers, and the accompanying chaos and spirit war you describe. The battle for control can only be won by your consistent submission to God. It makes the devil flee; then you stand with God, and if your husband does not submit to God as well, his season may be changed from sowing to harvest according to Galatians 6:7,8. I prayed this over my husband several years ago and the answer was immediate. God can give you an entirely new chapter in life, but you might have to come out from among them and be separate and shake the dust off your sandals.