Anonymous from the United States
July 23 at 2:33 am
Years ago there was a man I was potentially going to date but when I told him I was a virgin he accused me I would want to use him to get rid of my virginity and he treated me like a criminal and himself as a victim. It was not true I didn't want to use him to get rid of my virginity. I don't know why he put it that way he victimised himself and flipped the situation as I would use him for the gain to get rid of my virginity because it's such a bad thing to be a virgin. He said I would want to use him and sleep with him so I wouldn't be a virgin or labeled as a virgin anymore. He was a narcissist and accused me because he had the intention to sleep with me and because he was afraid to sleep with a virgin he perhaps flipped the thing and accused me or he just was scared but I didn't like these accusations. Maybe there are some girls or women in modern times who just sleep with someone in order to get rid of that shame or label from being a virgin but this was not my goal.
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